Wednesday, May 18, 2011

Giggles and timeouts

Well Jonny is full on giggling. It's freakin awesome. I forgot how much joy comes from watching an infant learn to laugh. My technique is simple. I take my hand and lightly grab his chest, with my fingers tucked under each armpit. And then I gently shake. It cracks him up. He opens his mouth so I can see his toothless smile and his head moves back and forth while his hands shake. Next time any of you see Jonny, I'll demonstrate.

And just as giggles emerge on one end, the use of timeouts have become a parenting technique we are now using on Oscar. We don't do it often, but it seems to work when we do. I learned a lot by watching Super Nanny and feel that consequences have become part of the learning to listen stage of Oscar's development. He's still a fun, sweet, gentle guy, and we have so much fun with him. He now knows how to play "Uno" and "Go Fish" and he loves to beat me. In fact, he's happier when I lose compared to when he wins. I say, "You won!" He replies, "You lost!" And then we shake hands and play again.

Wednesday, May 11, 2011

Oh my god, we went out partying last night!

Just kidding. Andy was asleep by 9pm and I passed out on the couch by 10pm. But oh how I remember those days of going out on a Tuesday night. We did, actually, rally big time on Saturday night for a friends birthday party in SF. We scored a last-minute baby sitter who agreed to hang at our house and take care of the babies while we got some adult hang time. Even though we were tired and it was a short jaunt out in to the world, it was invigorating to know we could still do it.

As for the boys, things are real good. Jonny is slowly but surely leaving the pain in the ass crying newborn stage while Oscar is slowly but surely entering the pain in the ass toddler stage. We expected Oscar to regress in his laid back attitude. I remember a time not too long ago when Oscar's answer to anything we asked him was "Sure!" Now, I think his answer to all our requests is "No!" This was to be expected, I guess. On the good news front, Jonny has started to giggle. He smiles and coos and cries less. So I guess the balancing of it all is on par with what we can expect. Will they ever both be delightful at the same time?